Fathers. Be good to your kids. Love them unconditionally. I shouldn't have to be sitting here 2 days before Xmas wondering why my father didn't love me enough to be a Dad. Why he was never there and still isn't. Why being away from his kids is so easy. That's the shit that makes people not want to live anymore. Thats the beginning of the abyss that suicides feed off of. Its a deep dark hole that I have to climb out of when i start to wonder and ask why. Love your kids, be there, no matter how hard it is to. No matter how many times you wanna run from the situation you don't know how to deal with. Stick. No one ever solved a problem by running or slinking away.